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Inspired by the kindness of a stranger
Would you buy a random stranger a Coke if they didn't have the money?  
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What is a blog?  For us it is a short blurb that we write when the mood strikes us.  It can be first person, funny or informative. In short, a blog is whatever we want it to be. Published Aug. 14, 2009 at 7:51 a.m.
Tags: kindness of strangers, generosity

The other day I had a headache that wouldn't quit. I'm no stranger to migraines and usually know how to combat them when they pull a sneak attack, but this one was different. It was a tension headache that was fully committed to running its course and no about of Excedrin was going to stop it.

I tried everything I could think of. I focused on my breathing. I massaged my temples and neck. I applied pressure to the pressure points in my hand. I hydrated myself. I took some vitamins. I ate something. I took a walk around the block for some fresh air. I even took a little catnap on a park bench during my lunch break. I took more Excedrin.

Nothing.

On my way back from the park, I saw a gas station and remembered that sometimes caffeine can be a cure-all. I normally don't drink soda, but I needed a Coke, stat. I was desperate.

With the message of a recent commercial I'd seen telling me that plastic bottles sit in a landfill forever lingering in my head, I opted for the classic can. It was 80 cents.

When I got to the check out, I got out my debit card. The cashier looked at it and shook his head. He wasn't about to let me pay for an 80-cent can of soda with plastic. I rifled through my purse and yielded little more than two nickels and, for some reason, a black guitar pick (I don't even play?)

"Never mind," I said as I walked back to the cooler to return the can.

As I headed for the door, the cashier stopped me.

"You pay me next time."

"Excuse me?"

"You take the soda and you pay me back next time."

"Are you serious?"

"It's a hot one out there. You look like you need it."

"I'll pay you back," I promised. "Thank you."

The next day I came back with $5 and told him to keep it. He wouldn't. He insisted he take the 80 cents I owed him and give me my change. Not wanting to insult him, I accepted the $4.20 back. All he said was, "Just come back and say hi every once and a while."

Wow, I thought as I left. It was such a small, simple gesture of kindness that took two minutes but it in turn impacted my outlook for the rest of the day. It sounds cheesy and clichéd, but I felt inspired to pass on the random act of human decency the next chance I get.

I guess I was just ultimately surprised by a total stranger's inclination to do something nice for me when he didn't have to, especially when it concerned money. When not a week goes by that I feel like someone isn't trying to swindle me out of more money -- whether it's our credit card processing company, cell phone service provider or the dude on the street who is now asking for $5 rather than spare change -- it's overwhelmingly refreshing to see that there are still people out there who are willing to show compassion at no gain for themselves.

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Posted by CWDC on Aug. 14, 2009 at 7:28 p.m. (report)

What a great story. I hope you do go back and say "hi" to him! I was in line for a coffee the other day and an acquaintance told the cashier he was buying me coffee. One latte later, I walked back to work, a happier person. I've done small things for people over the years, makes them feel good and makes you feel good. Why not spread a little cheer!

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Posted by Broner on Aug. 14, 2009 at 7:01 p.m. (report)

Plastic bottles will sit in a landfill forever if you don't recycle them. And that plastic bottles stayed in existence even though you didn't purchase it. Perhaps the person after you bought it and threw it in the garbage and it's on the way to the landfill now. If you would have bought it, you could recycled it. Sometimes I just wonder if you care about this earth!

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Posted by devidia on Aug. 14, 2009 at 12:54 p.m. (report)

It is an interesting comment on our times.

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Posted by dukesbball on Aug. 14, 2009 at 11:37 a.m. (report)

Easy to point out "the business angle", but he would have been out even more money had she not come back! Let's appreciate this as a great example of a good samaritan. I agree with other posters that I would gladly support this store if you're willing to share the name/location!

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Posted by Idle1 on Aug. 14, 2009 at 11:29 a.m. (report)

There's a business angle here too. Everytime you use plastic, even a debit card, the merchant is charged a fee by the card issuer. This is why many small businesses won't accept plastic for purchases under $5.00. A kind gesture? Yes, but the merchant broke even as the fee charged back to him would've exceeded the profit from the sale. Was it a fluke you were caught cashless that day, or do you routinely venture out into the world w/o a few singles in your wallet? Yikes!!

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