Ladies, please..do you really need a drink that badly?
Last weekend while I was out enjoying an MGD, I noticed something disturbing.....there were about 3 or 4 of them dressed in high heels, heavily coated makeup, short skirts and see through tank tops. Oh and all of them were blonde (nothing wrong with that, I'm just saying). It wasn't their style of dress or their ridiculously thick makeup that bothered me, it was what they were doing. They were hanging on this unsuspecting young man, flipping their hair and making pouty lips. Pretending to laugh at his jokes, and telling him how what he does for a living is sooo interesting. Dead man walking! He will fall for their lines, and ultimately the credit card will make an appearance. A round of shots for all!!
You see, these ladies came into that bar dressed the way they were all with one purpose, to deplete some poor sap who thinks he has a shot with any of them out of his money. No, the women weren't dabbling in the "flesh trade", but in the "I'll pretend I like you, and flirt with you a bit, only to leave you hanging 20 seconds after you've bought my drink..trade". Now being a woman myself I find this disturbing. Not only is it not fair to the guy who foolishly thinks he's going to get lucky tonight, or at the very least have the pleasure of conversation with you until bar close, but it also makes you, the woman look like a cheap tramp.
Harsh words I know, but I can't for the life of me figure out why women would come to a bar with little or no money with the hopes of flirting their way to a bloody mary. I guess in the same breath the men who buy these "ladies" their drinks would be foolish to think that anything other than a hug (which she will hate every second of) is insane for buying into it, but I guess he just feels that there may still be some hope (there isn't....well....wait nope not a chance).
Some of you women who flirt and scheme these men out of their hard earned money may read this blog, and say well obviously this person isn't attractive enough to get drinks from men, and she's just jealous. Not the case, ladies...at all. I'm what most men would consider attractive, I just don't feel that flaunting my sexuality only to get a drink from a man you have no interest in is the road I have to go down.
So I ask "ladies,please..do you really need a drink that bad?"