Prior to last Tuesday, I hadn’t been to the zoo in years. I went many times when my sons, now teens, were much younger, but then, like the children’s museum and drop-in playgroups, it fell off our radar as they aged.
When my almost-15-year-old son asked me if we could go to the zoo sometime, I was surprised and stoked. The zoo had invited me to "Body Worlds: Animals Inside Out," which was on my list to check out, and so the timing was leopard-spot-on.
I was really impressed with the zoo and had forgotten how well-maintained and peaceful it is. For me, all of the once-obvious animal stuff was pretty amazing because it had been so long since I got up close to so many species. Giraffes' necks are so long! Flamingos' legs are stick skinny and they sleep standing on only one! Monkey butts are gross and adorable!
I could, literally, watch the jellyfish for hours. And this guy, well, he's just freaky and beautiful:
Like most things, I realized I enjoyed the zoo more with teenagers than I did when they were younger. Back then, I was often tired and kinda bored, whereas the older they get, the more I enjoy hanging out with them. (A moment of mom honesty here.)
Hanging with teens at the zoo meant we spent time reading many of the information signs and really observing the animals and making commentary on their behavior. My son Snapchatted and made short videos in which he would record all different animals but marvel at each one for being so unique looking.
"Animals Inside Out" is a particularly good fit for teens because younger children probably won’t understand – or could be fearful of – what animals, from a bull to an ostrich, look like without skin or feathers. The exhibit explores animal physiology, including skeletal foundations, muscle, the nervous system and how animals breathe, eat and reproduce.
We found it fascinating and pleasingly graphic. Reindeer lungs? Wow.
Plus, it’s super cool that The Milwaukee County Zoo is the first zoo in North America to host the exhibition. It runs though Sept. 4.
A trip to the zoo with teens is a hybrid of nostalgia and new experience. It's educational, energetic and provides plenty of time for chatting. I realized I had presumed my teens aren't interested in most excursions from their childhood, but have now realigned my thinking.
Here are a few helpful hints if you bring teens to the zoo:
- Bring your own food. Carry-ins (not alcohol) are allowed into the zoo and there is a nice seating area for picnicking. The zoo food gets pricey if you have hungry, growing young adults with you. I do, however, recommend splurging on the Icee, which encourages the mixing of flavors. Mixing flavors on a fountain drink dispenser is, for some reason, a joy for kids of all ages (once they are, of course, permitted to drink soda) – and especially teens.
- Set aside more time than you think to explore. I thought 2-3 hours would be enough time, because that’s about the amount of time that we spent there when they were little. However, going with teens means you move slower through everything because they appreciate more aspects of the experience than they did as short-attention-span kiddos.
- Don't presume teens won't want to do something because of their age. One of the highpoints of our trip was feeding the goats and feeling their scratchy tongues on our palm.
- If your teen really digs the zoo, consider having him or her volunteer or work at the zoo.
- Don’t make your teens take the obligatory train photo that most of us take of littles when on the train at the zoo. I mean, you can, but you will most likely end up with a photo like this:
Molly Snyder grew up on Milwaukee's East Side and today, she lives in the Walker's Point neighborhood with her partner and two sons.
As a full time senior writer, editorial manager and self-described experience junkie, Molly has written thousands of articles about Milwaukee (and a few about New Orleans, Detroit, Indianapolis, Boston and various vacation spots in Wisconsin) that range in subject from where to get the best cup of coffee to an in-depth profile on the survivors of the iconic Norman apartment building that burned down in the '90s.
She also once got a colonic just to report on it, but that's enough on that.
Always told she had a "radio voice," Molly found herself as a regular contributor on FM102, 97WMYX and 1130WISN with her childhood radio favorite, Gene Mueller.
Molly's poetry, essays and articles appeared in many publications including USA Today, The Writer, The Sun Magazine and more. She has a collection of poetry, "Topless," and is slowly writing a memoir.
In 2009, Molly won a Milwaukee Press Club Award. She served as the Narrator / writer-in-residence at the Pfister Hotel from 2013-2014. She is also a story slam-winning storyteller who has performed with The Moth, Ex Fabula and Risk!
When she's not writing, interviewing or mom-ing, Molly teaches tarot card classes, gardens, sits in bars drinking Miller products and dreams of being in a punk band again.