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I have had this conversation often with owners and frequenters of gay bars and although no one knows for certain, there is a lot of speculation. In 10, 20 or 30 years, will gay bars still exist?
On one hand, it seems the concept of gay bars comes from a place of discrimination. At one point in history, races did not share restrooms, drinking fountains or schools. Is this any different?
Most of us cannot fathom that now, but at one time, it was commonplace. Maybe our kids or their kids will find gay bars equally as preposterous.
But on the other hand, gay bars serve a purpose for some, and I get it. If you're gay, going to a gay bar means you’ll obviously be around a lot of other gay people, which will not only heighten your chance of connecting with someone, but might also guarantee safety from haters.
And most modern gay bars have evolved over the years and are less secretive than they once were. Maybe gay bars won't completely go away, but rather become less defined such as Hybrid Lounge and Art Bar, which have been called "gay centric" or "straight friendly" and are inclusive of everyone.
In a world that seems to be filled with both more tolerance and more hate than ever, I can see the future of gay bars going either way (no pun intended). What do you think?
Molly Snyder started writing and publishing her work at the age 10, when her community newspaper printed her poem, "The Unicorn.” Since then, she's expanded beyond the subject of mythical creatures and written in many different mediums but, nearest and dearest to her heart, thousands of articles for OnMilwaukee.
Molly is a regular contributor to FOX6 News and numerous radio stations as well as the co-host of "Dandelions: A Podcast For Women.” She's received five Milwaukee Press Club Awards, served as the Pfister Narrator and is the Wisconsin State Fair’s Celebrity Cream Puff Eating Champion of 2019.