By Molly Snyder Senior Writer Published Apr 20, 2009 at 2:35 PM

Judith Lewy was diagnosed with first stage breast cancer in 2007 and underwent chemotherapy and radiation in early 2008. After her treatment, Lewy noticed that her daughter -- who usually chatted with her about everything -- was not talking about cancer.

Lewy employed a few strategies to help her daughter communicate her feelings. She purchased a few kids’ books on the subject and she contacted Gilda’s Club, where she learned about a new cancer support group called Kids Support.

The program provides age-appropriate  activities and information to help kids between the ages of 4 and 12 who have a family member or friend with the illness.

"This program had impact on my daughter," says Lewy. "She met other kids going through the same thing."

The free program starts Wednesday, April 29, and runs every Wednesday for five weeks. The sessions will take place in the Daniel M. Soref Family Resource Center at Children’s Hospital from 5 to 6:15 p.m.

Esther Grinnell is the program director for Gilda’s Club and a Kids Support facilitator.

"We help kids feel more comfortable talking about cancer. We try to clear up any confusion and make sure they don't think they did anything wrong or that it’s their fault," says Grinnell.

Kids Support is a curriculum-based program developed by Dr. Anne Speltz, an educator, author and breast cancer survivor. Speltz, who authored the book "The Year My Mother was Bald," uses imaginative activities like poems, stories, cartoon and games to encourage discussion about cancer.

The Kids Support program has two separate age groups and is limited to six kids per group.

"We had very good feedback after the last session," says Grinnell. "One mother told us her 4-year-old used some of the breathing techniques learned in the section on relaxation."

Lewy says that even though she has a good prognosis, her daughter is still affected by the illness and could be for a long time.

"This is something we have to constantly revisit and keep talking about,"  she says.

Gilda’s Club is a non-profit organization that provides free education, emotional support and social activities for people with or affected by cancer. The Gilda’s Club clubhouse is located at 4050 N. Oakland Ave.


Molly Snyder started writing and publishing her work at the age 10, when her community newspaper printed her poem, "The Unicorn.” Since then, she's expanded beyond the subject of mythical creatures and written in many different mediums but, nearest and dearest to her heart, thousands of articles for OnMilwaukee.

Molly is a regular contributor to FOX6 News and numerous radio stations as well as the co-host of "Dandelions: A Podcast For Women.” She's received five Milwaukee Press Club Awards, served as the Pfister Narrator and is the Wisconsin State Fair’s Celebrity Cream Puff Eating Champion of 2019.