Whether your wedding is right around the corner, or down the road, The Corners has just what you need to make your day extra special!
Couples that prefer a non-traditional officiant to assist in the tying of their knot don't have to look very far to find one. In fact, anyone in their lives who is willing to assume the role can do so. Although many people get "certified" via the Internet, the law does not require it.
Derek Mosley is the Chief Judge of the Municipal Court and he has performed more than 700 weddings over 16 years. According to Mosley, a person does not need any official certificate to marry and a couple doesn't even need an officiant at all. (Quaker weddings, for example, usually do not have officiants.)
"The parties themselves – husband and wife – are authorized to be officiating persons," says Mosley. "By mutual declarations that they take each other as husband and wife, in accordance with the customs, rules and regulations of any religious sect to which either of the parties may belong."
It costs $300 to hire Mosley to conduct a wedding ceremony, and he is available for all types of weddings, from large to intimate affairs. Mosley says he enjoys witnessing how different cultures and races handle marriage. He also appreciates the celebratory nature of nuptial exchange.
"I enjoy performing weddings because it's a much-needed break from many of the depressing things we see every day as judges. I enjoy being a part of the happiest day of many people's lives," he says. "Nothing gives me more joy than running into someone who either attended or were a part of a wedding I performed and hear them talk about how memorable the ceremony was to them. That's the ultimate compliment."
Jane Wiedlin, the former guitar player for The Go-Go's, officiates weddings under the name "Reverend Sister Go-Go." Wiedlin, who lived in Manitowoc, West Allis, Waukesha and, up until two years ago, Madison, currently lives in California. She will fly anywhere in the world to perform a wedding.
Wiedlin started performing weddings during the brief time same-sex marriage was legal in California. When the law was repealed, she continued to perform weddings for both gay and straight couples.
"It's a good fit for me. I'm a romantic at heart. I enjoy public speaking. And I love a good party," she says.
Wiedlin, who became an officiant via the Internet-based Universal Life Church, writes a personalized ceremony for each couple based on telephone conversations. The cost varies on the package purchased, the distance she has to travel, etc.
"It's different and fun," says Wiedlin.
When Anna Spankowski's brother was getting married in 2005, he asked her, as a joke, to marry him and his fiancee.
"Our dad was a pastor and I used to play wedding with my brother and marry him off to what ever little girl would oblige. He thought it would be cool if I did it for real this time. I just hopped online and was ordained by the Universal Life Church," she says.
Spankowski does mostly non-denominational weddings and commitment ceremonies. With the couple's input and assistance, Spankowski writes each ceremony from scratch.
"What's nice about weddings these days is that anything goes. Most people like to stay fairly traditional, but there are all sorts of things you can do to make the ceremony your own. There are sand ceremonies, hand fasting, family vows for couples with children, all kinds of different traditional practices from around the world that can be incorporated into it," says Spankowski.
"You can also make up your own things. I like to joke that if a couple wanted to have a Star Trek Klingon wedding I'd learn Klingon."
Spankowski charges $300-$375 per wedding, depending on how far she is traveling. (Contact her at firstname.lastname@example.org or (414) 810-9386 for more information about her wedding services.)
Debbie Baran, a 58-year-old retired employee of the Children's Outing Association, enjoys officiating weddings and she performs them for friends and family for free, except for the cost of the marriage license and her travel expenses.
Baran performs the ceremony based on what the couple provides, but infuses it with her own brand of humor.
"I like doing it. People are happy and there is lots of good energy. Who wouldn't want to be part of that? Of course, I have never had a bride or groom-zilla," she says.
Milwaukee's Paul Finger has provided some extraordinarily unique - and personalized – ceremonies which included pop tarts, blindfolds, flaming hoops and, once, a coffin that the bride and groom stepped into that was then set on fire.
"I have fun with it," he says.
Molly Snyder grew up on Milwaukee's East Side and today, she lives in the Walker's Point neighborhood with her partner and two sons.
As a full time senior writer, editorial manager and self-described experience junkie, Molly has written thousands of articles about Milwaukee (and a few about New Orleans, Detroit, Indianapolis, Boston and various vacation spots in Wisconsin) that range in subject from where to get the best cup of coffee to an in-depth profile on the survivors of the iconic Norman apartment building that burned down in the '90s.
She also once got a colonic just to report on it, but that's enough on that.
Always told she had a "radio voice," Molly found herself as a regular contributor on FM102, 97WMYX and 1130WISN with her childhood radio favorite, Gene Mueller.
Molly's poetry, essays and articles appeared in many publications including USA Today, The Writer, The Sun Magazine and more. She has a collection of poetry, "Topless," and is slowly writing a memoir.
In 2009, Molly won a Milwaukee Press Club Award. She served as the Narrator / writer-in-residence at the Pfister Hotel from 2013-2014. She is also a story slam-winning storyteller who has performed with The Moth, Ex Fabula and Risk!
When she's not writing, interviewing or mom-ing, Molly teaches tarot card classes, gardens, sits in bars drinking Miller products and dreams of being in a punk band again.