"Bar Month" at OnMilwaukee.com is back for another round – brought to you by Aperol, Pinnacle, Jameson, Fireball, Red Stag and Avion. The whole month of February, we're serving up intoxicatingly fun articles on bars and clubs – including guides, the latest trends, bar reviews and more. Grab a designated driver and dive in!
This bar month we’ve been featuring a few bartenders whose jobs are not in traditional Milwaukee taverns. Few places are farther from a corner tap than the upscale but welcoming Dream Dance Steak, a fine dining restaurant in Potawatomi Bingo Casino.
It is behind the bar there that you’ll find veteran bartender Candie Held, who in addition to rooting for the Brewers and being a self-described "gymnastics mom," makes a mean – if unusual – old fashioned with blueberries.
We asked Held about how tending bar at a fine dining establishment is different and what special skills are required for keeping casino guests happy.
OnMilwaukee.com: Give us a little of your background behind the bar.
Candie Held: I have been in the business for 19 years – Wow! – and have chosen to stay behind the bar. I enjoy conversation and really getting to know my guests.
OMC: How long have you been tending bar at Dream Dance Steak?
CH: Three years. I spent the previous seven years working at The Fire Pit Sports Bar and Grill.
OMC: Has the experience there been different from your previous gigs?
CH: Absolutely! I have learned so much more about wine, cuisine and fine dining.
OMC: I assume you spend more time pouring wine than you would at a tavern. Is it hard to learn the ins and outs of the massive wine list there?
CH: Oh certainly, but I find that learning the wines is easier with tasting them. I also enjoy wine tasting on my free time. Dream Dance Steak’s wine list is great because there is such a variety and we offer almost the entire list at retail pricing.
OMC: Do you have to know more about pairing food and drinks more than you might at a traditional bar?
CH: It’s important to know food pairings because it can make a dining experience go from great to outstanding. I did not do this so much at the past bars I have been at.
OMC: What's your clientele like?
CH: It is so comfortable at Dream Dance Steak. We have everyone from business executives to couples on a romantic date to casino guests all mingling with one another. On Friday nights it’s like Cheers.
OMC: Do you ever get to test the chefs' ideas for new dishes?
CH: Yes, I always insist on trying new dishes. I believe in being able to describe dishes and answering guest’s questions about menu items honestly. I like giving guests an idea of what they can expect in their meal.
OMC: What is your specialty/signature drink?
CH: Brandy old fashioned made with fresh blueberries and Bloody Marys.
OMC: What is the most ridiculous thing you've seen a drunk patron do?
CH: Come in and eat two entrees – a 14-ounce lobster tail and a bone-in rib-eye – then take three desserts home. Wow, was he hungry!
OMC: Ever break up any bar fights at any of your jobs?
CH: No, I am very fortunate.
OMC: What are the best and worst pick-up lines you've heard used in a bar?
CH: "Your wedding ring isn’t very big – must be room for me." It should be known that I am very happily married. My husband asked me to a Brewers game on our first date … it was a sure way to win my heart.
OMC: What are the best and worst parts of being a bartender?
CH: Best: meeting people. Worst: having people ask me what my real job is.
OMC: Do you go out to bars when you're not working? Do you have a favorite bartender?
CH: Yes. One of my favorite bartenders is Danielle at El Fuego. I met her when she started at El Beso. She is everything you expect from a bartender nice, attentive and she cares.
Born in Brooklyn, N.Y., where he lived until he was 17, Bobby received his BA-Mass Communications from UWM in 1989 and has lived in Walker's Point, Bay View, Enderis Park, South Milwaukee and on the East Side.
He has published three non-fiction books in Italy – including one about an event in Milwaukee history, which was published in the U.S. in autumn 2010. Four more books, all about Milwaukee, have been published by The History Press.
With his most recent band, The Yell Leaders, Bobby released four LPs and had a songs featured in episodes of TV's "Party of Five" and "Dawson's Creek," and films in Japan, South America and the U.S. The Yell Leaders were named the best unsigned band in their region by VH-1 as part of its Rock Across America 1998 Tour. Most recently, the band contributed tracks to a UK vinyl/CD tribute to the Redskins and collaborated on a track with Italian novelist Enrico Remmert.
He's produced three installments of the "OMCD" series of local music compilations for OnMilwaukee.com and in 2007 produced a CD of Italian music and poetry.
In 2005, he was awarded the City of Asti's (Italy) Journalism Prize for his work focusing on that area. He has also won awards from the Milwaukee Press Club.
He has be heard on 88Nine Radio Milwaukee talking about his "Urban Spelunking" series of stories, in that station's most popular podcast.